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Don’t stress over debt too much

Sunday, October 24th, 2010

I just had a conversation with a neighbor who bought a new car late last year and then early this year was replaced by a machine.  Well…he was replaced by a machine at his old job…not his family.  He got behind on payments and had to return the car.  He actually got on with that deal that allowed you to return the car without any damage to his credit profile so good-for-him.  The point is, now that he’s got a new job in a new career he’s freaking out about the debt he accumulated while he was laid off.   He asked my advice and I told him, “Well, don’t stress out about it.  It’s only debt.”  After about 15 minutes of  ‘yeah buts’, I explained that if he does not have the money to pay his creditors the worst they can do is put him in prison for fraud.  After an excited squeel from him I continued.  “But, the creditors would have to prove that and it isn’t likely that they could considering you were legitimately employed and legitimately laid off.  As long as you entered the contract in good faith then you don’t have a fraud problem.”  I continued, “What they’re doing to you now is harassing you for back payments, right?”  He agreed.  “Ok, then just work something out with them.”  My advice is pretty much the same to everyone that has a basic debt problem.

Call each creditor up and get on a repayment program.  Get them to freeze all the late charges and interest.  If they refuse then you can get backup by calling a legitimate debt settlement company.  You don’t have to go into great detail with them but you should at least make the effort to repay.  If you just don’t want to deal with them then you have options like Consumer Credit Counseling or Debt Settlement.  I wouldn’t make either of those options my first choice before trying to negotiate myself, both have their drawbacks.  Try it on your own first and then if you’re just frustrated beyond belief then get hold of a company you can trust.  I hesitate to make recommendations as to who you can trust.  I’ve had some good experience in recommendations and some bad.  If you read this post and see an advertiser on this site then rest assured they are at least screened by me although I make no representation as to the quality their service, it doesn’t constitute a warranty, don’t sue me, etc.  (how’s that for legal mumbo jumbo?)

Oh, by the way…I’ll be putting together some more posts soon so bookmark me and check back every so often.  I know it’s been a while but Summer’s over and I’m back at my desk for large chunks of the day. :)

Take care,

David

PS – Don’t stress over debt.  Life is too short.  Manage your debt, learn to budget, live happier.

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A Lifetime of Debt Awaits the Unprepared

Saturday, October 23rd, 2010

To put it simply, my friends: A lifetime of debt awaits the unprepared.  Just before I graduated High School I took my car in to have it serviced.  I wasn’t a gear-head, (then…that came later).  I was more interested in whatever teen-age boys are interested in…as a near 40 something now my mind is blank.

I won’t tell you where I took my car but in their commercials they speak of a certain touch.  I remember reading about the touch when I was a kid.  Apparently there was a king by the same name that everything he touched turned to gold.  I took my car there because my dad told me I should; afterall it was right across the street from his store.

Anyway, I took it in and they told me that my entire braking system was shot.  Typical retail mechanic jargon that actually means, “Hey stupid, get out your wallet to pay for these lies.”  I bought in.  Since it was my Dad that said I should take it there I decided he must know what he’s talking about so I figured…”heck, they’re the ones with the touch, who am to argue?”

Don’t laugh at me and call me stupid…well…ok, you can do either of those if it makes you feel better.  But they wanted me to pay $1,700 to fix everything.  OH MY GOODNESSS!  Though at the time I asked them if they were joking and I didn’t leave out the juicy expletives.  They also told me that the car is unsafe that I have to do it or they’re not pulling the car off the rack.  Hey, I was barely 18 and didn’t know poop from shoe-shine.  If anybody ever tried to take advantage of my kids like that I would rip them a new one but…I think my dad was teaching me a lesson he thought I should have learned earlier.  Anyway, moving right along.

I didn’t have that kind of money.  Heck, I barely had enough money to take my girlfriend, (Ex wife #1), to a decent meal let alone pay $1,700 to fix something that, up until the day before, seemed to work.  Hell, I didn’t even pay $1,700 for the car.

The touch people had a solution.  “We have a credit card.”

“Oh, great.”, said I.  “How do I apply?”

We all know the story from here on out…maybe.  But this was my first venture into credit and it haunted me for a long time.

That lousy 17 hundred bucks didn’t get paid off for 5 years and had seen more transfers than  a GrayHound bus.

I was seriously unprepared for credit and debt management.  If you feel that way too then you’ve come to the right place.  Sit down, have a cup of cocoa and tell us your story.

Thanks,

David

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